Coaching - Like Having Your Very Own Jiminy Cricket

Whoever said life was easy! Let’s face it it can be difficult at times and there's no manual to help you out when you get stuck. It would be a best seller if there was!  Ever felt that no matter how hard you try nothing ever really changes or that it simply is not changing fast enough?  Have you ever stopped and asked yourself Why?

Who you are & how you act every moment of your life matters and this is never more significant than when you are looking to make a difference.


There are times when trying to figure out what to do and how to do it on your own can be tough  As a coach when I work with you, you're not be alone. It's similar to having a second conscious, your own "Jiminy Cricket" to help guide your thinking, sound off to and help you reason the best way forward.

Happy Single People Are Magnets To Their Opposite

I have many friends who are single. Some have been single for sometime others a little less and no matter whenever we get together you can guarantee the topic of conversation that they always get around to is, how miserable life is at the moment with no one special in their life. Seriously, it does appear to me that there is a common belief that being single is a transitional state and that finding a partner completes everything in life. Maybe it will although being in a relationship never guaranteed anything, especially when it comes from a need.

I believe that when you are single there is a reason for this. Just because you say you want to be in a relationship does not mean you are ready for one. Think about it if it was as simple as wanting you would be in a relationship by now. So what is stopping you and please don't say it's because there is no one out there. The last statistics I read said there are about about 7.6m singles over the age of 16 year of which 2.5m were aged 45-64years and the split of male to female was roughly half. So what is your reason?

Blast Through Your Obstacles

In each of us are places where we have never gone. 

Only by pressing the limits do you ever find them.

I love this phrase, I'm a little unsure who wrote it but I really feel that it illustrates what many people chose to ignore, which is that we are far more capable of achieving what we want in this world than we give ourselves credit.

Don't think of a blue elephant!

So, what or who is stopping you from having what you want?  Take a good hard look in the mirror. Who is controlling you?  Everything you do and say your entire being is controlled by your mind. 

Don't think of a blue elephant!

To The Moon & Back Before Tea-Time

A belief is a feeling of certainty about something that you know.  As a child you believe anything is possible.  The thought that you would not be able to do something never really enters your head.   Remember when you could fly to the moon and back and still be home for tea- time! 

Nothing was impossible for you as a child so what happened  to stop you believing it was?  Somehow as we grow up we un-learn the process of believing anything is possible.